In Memory

My Love left us January 2022. He was 82. His years with memory loss and all his associated senior ailments were over.

Things happened so quickly. In that moment it seemed like our nearly 29 years together had been blown away by a wisp of air … gone. All that remained were the cherished memories.

While processing the sorrows of grief I was reminded that caregiving was a precious gift I had been given to share with My Love and I had given my best.

We get no do-overs, only reflections. Be present when caring for those you love. Be your best caregiver self. Give love with every effort you make, every task you accomplish, every thought you think, or service you provide.

I miss My Love every single day, but am forever grateful I was the one who cared for him 24/7. I understand the heartache, but know love never dies. Keep loving.

Love, Judy Shone

Author of the book series Accepting the Gift of Caregiving and host of Accepting the Gift of Caregiving website